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I NO LONGER PLAY SINGLELY ONLY WITH MY PARTNER IN 3 SOMES OR 4 SOMES .I live in western south dakota. I am 5'4 blonde hair, blue eyes, ample body and more than a handful for some. 40 dd on top been told that I know how to treat a man. Looks aren't not everything it means more to me in how you treat me. Do have a good sense of humor and enjoy the simple things in life because life is to dang short to go through it hurting because of a partner. I am not looking for a life partner as I had one and think friends are better to have. I prefer chatting before meeting and then in a public place as it is safer for both parties and we both have the right to say no. I am NOT into cyber or phone sex as it is unfulling to me!!!!!!!!! also i am part of a couple that swings together if interested check out humpbackbluefin so if you are just blowing smoke please don't contact us or me. don't send invites unles you can return the favor. looking for action not hot air!!!!!!!!!! Thank You some one who can be discreet, that can last longer than 3 mins. who can show that i matter to them. that can have a good time and not worry about every little detail. i enjoy someone with a great sense of humor and can make me laugh. please no one younger than 36 as life hasn't given you enough hard knocks to understand the meaning of discreet. don't send invites unless you can return the favor i will not be accepting them otherwise